Episode Transcript
[00:00:00] Speaker A: The views and opinions expressed by the no Nonsense show and its host do not necessarily reflect views consistent with political correctness or the Rare Sonnets Podcast Network. So to get the show started right, we want to wish any officers of the sensitivity police a heartfelt.
[00:00:13] Speaker B: Happy St. Patrick's Day. You know what I mean?
You. You want to Guinness?
[00:00:18] Speaker A: Is that dark? Yeah, no, I'm good. I don't really want any. Any liquor.
[00:00:22] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:00:22] Speaker A: Although I did yesterday drink a half a bottle of wine.
[00:00:26] Speaker C: Half.
[00:00:26] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:00:27] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:00:28] Speaker C: You all right?
[00:00:28] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:00:29] Speaker B: No, I mean, look, wine is my wife.
[00:00:32] Speaker A: We were. We were in the car and, you know, it was Sunday. I had stuff to do, but I was like, you know what? It was a nice day. I was like, let's just drive. Let's just drive somewhere. And I was thinking maybe like Kennesaw or, you know, somewhere an hour, maybe on the back road was not going the highway. She's like, yeah, let's go to Chateau alone. I'm like, it's like two hours and two and a half hours on the road without expressways, right? She's asleep, bro. I'm driving this bitch by myself, you know? Ain't enjoying the wind by myself.
Turning the music down because she's sleep.
[00:01:02] Speaker B: Now, so it's not like you gotta. You gotta.
[00:01:04] Speaker C: You did that all back roads?
[00:01:06] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:01:06] Speaker C: I didn't even know you could do that.
[00:01:07] Speaker A: Sometimes. Sometimes I like just riding instead of hitting the expressway.
[00:01:11] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:01:11] Speaker C: What's the main road you take, though?
[00:01:12] Speaker A: Like. Well, Lawrenceville highway was probably the longest.
[00:01:15] Speaker C: Okay.
[00:01:15] Speaker A: The longest one stretch, and then Lawrenceville highway goes all the way from Tucker Mountain industrial area. No, even further down. Yeah, it's all the way from, like, inside. Inside the perimeter, all the way up past Mount Industrial, past Pleasant Hill, past all that. And then it comes.
[00:01:32] Speaker C: Those are the roads people used to take before highways.
[00:01:51] Speaker B: You are listening to the no nonsense show. 10% less bullshit than any other podcast guarantee.
[00:01:59] Speaker A: Sure.
[00:02:00] Speaker C: Gotta be.
[00:02:01] Speaker B: How do you know?
You could be knowing the most about.
[00:02:05] Speaker A: But that's just not even. That's not even a smart graduation of the thought. Like, obviously, people use these roads if they're. If. If Lawrenceville highways was there.
[00:02:15] Speaker B: Right.
[00:02:16] Speaker A: People used it because they use whatever their. Whatever means they could.
[00:02:19] Speaker C: Oh, I'm saying because of the highways. Now, you never think about those roads. But then I do. That's why I take back roads.
[00:02:24] Speaker A: I can pretty much get you anywhere in Atlanta on back roads. I don't have to hit the expressway.
[00:02:29] Speaker B: Yeah. I used to come from Gwinnett to Alpharetta all Back roads.
[00:02:33] Speaker A: Yeah, but see, Alpharetta and Gwinnett, that's not really Atlanta proper. I'm talking about. I can get you anywhere in Atlanta. Back roads. Now, when you're up there, sometimes I know and sometimes I don't because it's. There's a lot of streets that have numbers instead of names. Like Highway 124.
[00:02:47] Speaker B: Yeah, for sure.
[00:02:48] Speaker A: Highway 29. And like, I'm not good with that. I'm good with street names.
[00:02:51] Speaker B: Yeah, that 124 go everywhere. Yeah.
[00:02:53] Speaker A: 124 is long.
[00:02:54] Speaker B: Yeah, long the motherfucker.
[00:02:55] Speaker A: 166 is long.
[00:02:56] Speaker B: Yeah. Oh, that's right.
[00:02:58] Speaker A: I was trying to get on Alabama.
[00:03:00] Speaker B: Yeah. I was trying to get on 166 to hit that liquor store before I got here, but I was running late, so.
[00:03:06] Speaker A: With your publix or something?
[00:03:07] Speaker B: Yeah, no, I just stopped at the bp.
[00:03:08] Speaker A: Oh, okay.
[00:03:09] Speaker B: Yeah, just stopped.
[00:03:10] Speaker A: I mean, they had Guinness, though. You just wanted some Irish.
[00:03:12] Speaker B: Yep.
[00:03:12] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:03:12] Speaker B: You know, because it's, you know, St. Patty's Day, plus it's my Friday, so.
[00:03:16] Speaker A: Oh, we. We holding you back then.
[00:03:18] Speaker B: Look, I was. I was gonna get some Irish whiskey, too, and I was like, we got regular whiskey. Ski that.
[00:03:21] Speaker A: Yeah. Anybody wearing green? I guess that's not a thing no more.
[00:03:24] Speaker B: No, we ain't. Nobody's pinching in here.
[00:03:26] Speaker A: I worked out today. I had on a green shirt for my workout.
[00:03:28] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:03:28] Speaker A: But I mean, I was outside. I. I wish a would have ran up on me.
[00:03:31] Speaker B: That's what I'm saying. If you was you, someone come up and pinch you.
[00:03:33] Speaker A: What did I walk with my pistol? You walk up and pinch me, I'mma pinch you back. I'mma bite you. I'mma bite you back.
[00:03:42] Speaker B: I was. Oh.
[00:03:43] Speaker C: I still don't understand how St Patrick Day is so important in other countries.
[00:03:47] Speaker A: It's not. Who said it was? People just like getting drunk, bro.
[00:03:50] Speaker B: Right?
[00:03:50] Speaker A: What are you talking about? I guess Cinco de Mayo isn't even really a fucking.
[00:03:54] Speaker B: No, we just like. We just like to get excuse to get drunk.
[00:03:57] Speaker C: Huh?
[00:03:57] Speaker B: Right?
[00:03:58] Speaker A: Yes. Cinco de Mayo.
[00:04:00] Speaker B: Welcome to America, nigga.
[00:04:01] Speaker A: Look, I think that the biggest. Like, if this may be a different stat now, but when I was younger, I used to go to clubs. Do you know what the biggest club night of the year is?
[00:04:10] Speaker C: Cinco de Mayo.
[00:04:11] Speaker A: No.
You gonna trip.
[00:04:13] Speaker B: New Year's.
[00:04:14] Speaker A: Not even New Year's. Thanksgiving.
[00:04:18] Speaker B: Oh, yeah.
[00:04:19] Speaker A: Oh.
[00:04:19] Speaker C: After the dinner, people go out because.
[00:04:21] Speaker A: People are in town.
[00:04:21] Speaker C: They want to see.
[00:04:22] Speaker A: I want to see Atlanta. I want to see New York.
[00:04:24] Speaker C: That makes sense.
[00:04:24] Speaker B: And you off, you know, I mean, there's a. You might have a. You might have a long weekend.
[00:04:27] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:04:28] Speaker B: And I mean, you turn that Thursday and everybody's off Thursday.
[00:04:30] Speaker A: They charge a lot for New Year's, but Thanksgiving is packed. Yeah, Thanksgiving is packed, bro.
[00:04:36] Speaker B: So I miss Taboo too, bro. That used to be the.
[00:04:38] Speaker A: They were so hooded. You didn't miss. You're not missing things, French. Had you ever been there? Yeah, it was bullet shots and shit.
[00:04:43] Speaker B: It was. That was my joy when a nigga.
[00:04:46] Speaker A: Got on gators in the club already, you know, where you at?
[00:04:49] Speaker C: Like, I haven't been in the club in years, man. I feel once the club scene just became sections and.
[00:04:55] Speaker A: And what year was that French young guy?
[00:04:58] Speaker C: For me, 20, like 15. 15, 16.
[00:05:02] Speaker B: It was.
[00:05:02] Speaker C: That's when I kind of stopped.
[00:05:03] Speaker A: It was. It was before that I was about to say.
[00:05:05] Speaker B: Cause it. When I first came out here, it was like that. And I was like, why is nobody, like, dancing, right? Like, what are we doing here? Why is everybody just saying what I heard?
[00:05:14] Speaker A: From what I heard, this is. This is all hearsay. Because I wasn't here when it happened, right? So, you know, I went to Military 95. I came back in 2000.
From what I heard. BMF, everything up there. Who changed Atlanta. They're who Atlanta up. I don't know about the other cities, right. Atlanta was popping before.
[00:05:32] Speaker C: So after bmf, every. The club decided to change.
[00:05:36] Speaker A: Everything was different. Because throwing all those thousands of dollars and then the street, they shut strip club down. They go in and buy sections. Not section.
[00:05:43] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:05:43] Speaker A: In the clubs. So it made the people have to either compete or disappear.
[00:05:48] Speaker B: Fall back, right?
[00:05:49] Speaker A: And so people started competing. Now Atlanta is.
[00:05:51] Speaker C: You know, But I think with my generation, it became more of like, people are going to the club for Instagram and not going for the club.
[00:05:58] Speaker A: What do you mean for Instagram?
[00:06:00] Speaker B: It's like just to show I'm here.
[00:06:01] Speaker C: Yeah, to show I'm here and to take pictures, but not to dance and network.
Yeah, it became weird. And that's why if you're a dude, you get 5 of your homeboys bisection split three bottles. It just started to be like, yo, what the fuck are we doing? It didn't even look like it was for the club, like to have fun and get girls and get some dances. Girls only started dancing with their friends. Like, fuck dancing with.
[00:06:25] Speaker A: Well, they been doing that.
[00:06:26] Speaker C: Yeah. But if you was a smooth, cute nigga, you could still get a couple dances.
[00:06:29] Speaker A: But now it's so you're saying there's no individual dances?
[00:06:35] Speaker C: It's not.
Not with strangers.
[00:06:37] Speaker B: Right.
[00:06:38] Speaker C: You gotta have some type of rapport.
[00:06:39] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:06:40] Speaker C: Unless if she really feeling you and that means you something with your section or you might be able to get her in this section. So you still trick in some way. It's trick. Now it's tricking. It don't matter no more. Today it's all about tricking.
[00:06:53] Speaker A: So then let's say you weren't with your girl. What would you do? Would you just.
[00:06:56] Speaker C: I would not go to jack off.
[00:06:58] Speaker A: What would you do?
[00:06:59] Speaker B: Prostitutes?
[00:07:00] Speaker A: Escorts?
[00:07:01] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, that's what you need, a best route.
[00:07:03] Speaker A: Nah, that.
[00:07:04] Speaker B: Listen, bro, listen. I'm not going shopping. What are you talking about? I'm going shopping. Yeah, I'm shopping for some. And I'm getting.
[00:07:13] Speaker A: I spill water. This isn't peace.
[00:07:17] Speaker B: I'm getting what I want.
This is what I want tonight. And you like, I'll be like Chris Tucker. I want that one and that one.
[00:07:27] Speaker A: Did you just kick me?
[00:07:28] Speaker B: Oh, and my back is a little tight. I really want that one. Like, like, let's go. Like, what are we talking about? Yeah, like. And then, and then the thing is.
[00:07:37] Speaker A: How many is that then?
[00:07:38] Speaker B: That was three.
[00:07:39] Speaker A: You know, they say in Atlanta now one and three is a tranny.
[00:07:43] Speaker C: You gotta be careful out there.
[00:07:47] Speaker A: She gonna take care of your back. All right, that's the thing.
[00:07:50] Speaker B: Blow it out.
But that's the thing. If you paying for it, you can't get. You can't be selling me no bad goods.
[00:07:57] Speaker A: What, man?
[00:07:58] Speaker B: What are you talking about?
[00:07:59] Speaker A: What retail have you been to recently where people give a. About your money?
[00:08:03] Speaker B: Listen, not, not on that level. See, that's a different level though. You can't trick or treat because you.
[00:08:07] Speaker C: Can ask for what you want, right.
[00:08:08] Speaker B: And you can't trick or treat, bro.
[00:08:10] Speaker A: Go to any retail store, no matter what level that retail store is, unless it's the utmost. The top echelon.
[00:08:17] Speaker B: Nordstrom's the top echelon.
[00:08:19] Speaker A: People in Nordstrom, guys. I'm late to get my kid from daycare.
[00:08:22] Speaker B: I ain't let you bring that back without a receipt.
Some of Walmart n you, you can bring it back.
[00:08:30] Speaker A: You can take a shovel back to Walmart. Don't got no branding on it or.
[00:08:33] Speaker B: Nothing, but they're going to give you a Walmart gift card.
[00:08:36] Speaker A: A gift card?
[00:08:36] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:08:37] Speaker A: No, Home Depot will take back and give you money. Yeah, you could use this shit.
[00:08:41] Speaker B: Nordstrom. Nordstrom. Without a receipt, they're giving you cash. Yeah, that's What? That Nordstrom return policy, that used to be the jig.
[00:08:48] Speaker A: So what does that got to do with what I was talking about?
[00:08:50] Speaker B: Because again, for the pussy, like, again, like retail stores. Retail stores.
[00:08:53] Speaker A: Retailers full of shit. And it's trickled down, bro.
[00:08:56] Speaker B: But not an escort, though. You can't. It's your reputation, bro. Like, you're not going to be.
[00:09:00] Speaker A: I really, really wish I knew somebody who used to fuck escorts before this shit switched up and now. And they can tell us, but I.
[00:09:07] Speaker C: Feel like if you fucking escorts, you can.
[00:09:11] Speaker A: McDonald's, you can ask for extra cheese.
[00:09:13] Speaker B: I know somebody. I know somebody. So I'm gonna try to see if we can get them on the show next week. Okay?
Yeah, yeah. Because. Yeah, she. She used to, you know, escort. No, she. No, she ran them. She has. You know what?
[00:09:25] Speaker A: She gonna have a bias though, man. Cause she like all my. Is the shooting supposed to be.
That's ego.
[00:09:32] Speaker B: What are we talking at this point is ego?
[00:09:34] Speaker A: I want to talk to a trick. My. Not. No, not. No madam.
[00:09:37] Speaker B: Okay, I might not.
[00:09:38] Speaker A: She might be trying to still be doing sales, but she still could. She might be trying to use this thing.
[00:09:44] Speaker B: If I was. If I was to get a referral, I would definitely be like, you know somebody out here you could refer me to? Yeah, for sure I would. I just wouldn't show up at the W and go to the bar, maybe.
[00:09:54] Speaker C: Right.
[00:09:54] Speaker B: I heard that's a spot.
[00:09:55] Speaker A: The W. Yeah. Which W?
[00:09:58] Speaker B: Downtown? Yeah.
[00:10:00] Speaker A: I thought they closed that W. They didn't close it.
[00:10:02] Speaker B: I don't know. It's been a while since someone told me.
[00:10:04] Speaker A: Colony Square?
[00:10:06] Speaker B: I don't know.
[00:10:07] Speaker A: You have no idea where we're.
[00:10:08] Speaker B: No.
[00:10:09] Speaker A: You know the W?
[00:10:10] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:10:10] Speaker C: I don't think it's close, though.
[00:10:12] Speaker A: It's another name. It's not even.
[00:10:14] Speaker C: Somebody bought it.
[00:10:14] Speaker A: Yeah, it's not even a W no more. I passed by the other day. I don't know, maybe they moved it. Who knows?
[00:10:18] Speaker B: Yeah, but I heard that bar used to be like the spot.
[00:10:20] Speaker A: Now the W had upstairs, like a. Like almost. It's not a rooftop. It was like a mezzanine level. Yeah, that used to be pretty nice. About 1:00, if you leave something else and come over there, it's. It's real chill, you know what I'm saying? Expensive, though, but.
[00:10:33] Speaker B: Yeah, of course. See, that's what I'm saying. Like, you get what you pay for. Like, listen, you're not gonna.
[00:10:37] Speaker A: You don't get nothing there because what are you gonna get there?
[00:10:39] Speaker B: Escorts.
[00:10:40] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. I'M that wasn't. I'm not. I didn't even see them.
[00:10:44] Speaker B: So you. I'm just saying. I'm sitting.
[00:10:46] Speaker A: I don't even know how they look no more.
[00:10:47] Speaker C: They look like regular.
[00:10:48] Speaker A: If we're in Mexico, I can show them to you, but up here, I.
[00:10:50] Speaker B: Have no idea what you mean. They gonna look like a. What you mean you don't.
[00:10:54] Speaker A: Because they don't have a uniform anymore.
[00:10:56] Speaker B: No, they don't, but they. They'll. But they.
[00:10:58] Speaker A: They used to though.
[00:10:59] Speaker B: But they have a gap though, right? They're working.
[00:11:01] Speaker A: Yeah, but you got to talk to. I'm talking about if I'm walking through a room, I'm not talking to them. So if I'm walking through a room and I can't identify them, then I wouldn't know they were there.
[00:11:08] Speaker B: Like, hey, they. I think they identify you though, right? Like, I mean, they sit up there again, but you sit up there long enough at the bar by yourself, they're like, hey, how you doing? You're like, okay, I guess so.
[00:11:17] Speaker A: I don't know. I don't know the rules. You. You guys seem more versed in this.
[00:11:20] Speaker B: I listen, I just.
[00:11:22] Speaker A: French. French even knows.
[00:11:24] Speaker B: So they come up to you. Listen, I'm just saying what I heard.
[00:11:29] Speaker A: Right? Right?
[00:11:29] Speaker B: I'm just saying what and what And. And if, you know, I had to be out there like that because again, all this other trick. Listen, he's saying it already. You're gonna be tricking.
[00:11:37] Speaker C: You gotta trick anyway.
[00:11:38] Speaker B: You're gonna. You're gonna. Might as well just go straight.
[00:11:40] Speaker C: Direct to consumer.
[00:11:41] Speaker B: Just let me just pay for what I want. Like, I don't know, take out the risks.
[00:11:44] Speaker A: I think I may be too old.
[00:11:45] Speaker B: Professional.
[00:11:46] Speaker A: I don't know if I can do it.
[00:11:47] Speaker C: You want the chase still?
[00:11:48] Speaker A: No, I don't want none of that.
[00:11:49] Speaker C: Oh, yeah.
[00:11:50] Speaker B: So what you gonna do if I.
[00:11:52] Speaker A: Can'T meet you regular, Then I just chill.
[00:11:55] Speaker B: For how long?
God damn. Like, I mean, like, that's, you know, that he thinks his sense of humor.
[00:12:02] Speaker C: Is going to get it done.
[00:12:03] Speaker B: No, I'm just saying, like, you know, so after a while it gets depressing, right? Like, you like, God damn, man. I ain't.
I mean, because I was just talking to somebody about this today. Like, masturbating is cool. Yeah, but it ain't like. I mean, but it couldn't be right because it's not supposed to be right. If it was like the real thing, we would never fucking. It would be like, for what? Why would I put myself through all that other shit when I can just do.
[00:12:27] Speaker A: See, that's what I don't get about the incel thing. They're like, nah, fuck that shit. We're going the other way. Like, other way though.
[00:12:32] Speaker C: Just can't get pussy.
[00:12:33] Speaker A: You realize there's no pussy that way, right?
[00:12:37] Speaker B: That's a dead end. For real.
[00:12:39] Speaker A: Like I'm going to just start reading comic books and watching anime, man.
[00:12:42] Speaker B: Fuck it.
You so slick. You're so slick. They get. Stop that bullshit. Yeah, man.
[00:12:50] Speaker A: Fucking Naruto, man. I'ma bust my nut on Naruto's ass.
[00:12:56] Speaker B: Her name was Sasuke.
[00:12:57] Speaker A: What?
[00:12:58] Speaker B: I mean, that's the. The female in Naruto. Oh, I don't think it would be Naruto.
[00:13:04] Speaker C: You want to take a shot to St. Patrick?
[00:13:05] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, let's do it to St. Patrick.
[00:13:08] Speaker A: Him Saints don't mean nothing, bro.
[00:13:11] Speaker B: Come on, bro.
[00:13:12] Speaker A: What are you talking about?
[00:13:15] Speaker C: If you.
[00:13:15] Speaker A: You pick the worst one to believe in Catholicism, you pick the worst of all of them if that's the one you're going with. Okay.
[00:13:23] Speaker B: Aren't they. Aren't they only saints in Catholicism, Right?
[00:13:27] Speaker A: Yeah, okay. I'm saying Saint anything. I was like, who? What is he good for?
[00:13:32] Speaker B: All of the saints, bro. Come on. You like Mother Teresa? No, I. I already know about her, dude. I already know what happened with Mother. He's not as good as everybody.
[00:13:40] Speaker C: She was scamming the whole time.
[00:13:42] Speaker A: All these are child traffickers.
[00:13:44] Speaker C: Oh, child trafficker. I'm thinking she was scamming Catholic money.
[00:13:47] Speaker A: Them orange. Them orange dressed Buddha, the Harry Creek, whatever they were. Remember those monks? And yeah, they got a maf. They murder.
All these is dirty, bro. All of them. Y'all believing in some hold up.
[00:14:00] Speaker C: So Mother Theresa was trafficking Teresa too? I thought she was just taking.
I thought she was just taking money from the Catholics.
[00:14:09] Speaker B: And she was abusive too. Like she used to torture people too. I feed them.
[00:14:12] Speaker A: And her favorite word was.
[00:14:14] Speaker C: She's like, that's my favorite word.
[00:14:17] Speaker A: That's my new ad lib. What he say?
Teresa used to be on them holes. That's crazy. Teresa was hard on hoes, bruh.
[00:14:25] Speaker C: They used to program us like she was the queen of all goodness.
[00:14:29] Speaker A: We some program right? Now 90 of the we say is something we got from a program it's not even we thought of.
[00:14:36] Speaker B: And, and they, I mean they. They tell us they programming it because everything is. Is a program, right? Whether it's a. It's a program on your radio, it's a program on the tv, it's A program, like, program, program, program. Like, that just takes me to thinking that we. Maybe we are little computers, right? Because that's what gets. I mean, that's what happens to computers, right? You program them, right? And so.
[00:14:56] Speaker A: Yeah. Does the. The church things they program on it?
[00:14:59] Speaker B: It does.
It does.
[00:15:02] Speaker C: It's always on your face. Let me ask y'all something.
[00:15:06] Speaker A: Pause.
[00:15:07] Speaker B: I might need another shot for that.
[00:15:08] Speaker A: Yeah, get another shot.
[00:15:10] Speaker B: The church will fuck me up right there.
[00:15:12] Speaker A: I didn't think about it till right there.
[00:15:14] Speaker B: Look at your program on page. Oh, my God. Good news.
[00:15:20] Speaker C: Go ahead.
[00:15:21] Speaker B: Okay, so. But doesn't that lend to what we talking about? Like, how they got to tell you, like, how they're not.
[00:15:26] Speaker C: They got to always keep it in your face.
[00:15:28] Speaker A: That sounds so stupid. That sounds like.
[00:15:30] Speaker B: Why wouldn't they just call it look in your pamphlet?
[00:15:32] Speaker A: You know, you're a cop. You got to tell me.
[00:15:33] Speaker B: Right?
[00:15:34] Speaker A: That's what that sounds like to me.
[00:15:35] Speaker B: But why would they just say look in your pamphlet or something? Why. Why they going to just tell you, look in your program? Like, listen, their program.
[00:15:42] Speaker A: They don't even know.
It's just the language because you got. You know what I'm saying? You got to make sure the language is right.
[00:15:47] Speaker B: But somebody started it, right? And whoever started that was like, look, watch this.
[00:15:55] Speaker A: You know how I feel about this. Don't start with me.
[00:15:58] Speaker B: We're gonna. We're gonna just tell them we're doing it, too. Like, right.
[00:16:01] Speaker C: That's a turn, man.
[00:16:03] Speaker B: They won't even notice.
[00:16:07] Speaker C: All right. Yeah. So I was about to ask Jamie Mack, I know you got divorced, but I think you. I think you. You. You can. You know, I'm.
[00:16:15] Speaker A: I'm about to purpose the question that you're about to ask with some horrible that happens to my. In their life.
[00:16:21] Speaker B: Not so horrible.
[00:16:22] Speaker A: Okay?
[00:16:22] Speaker C: He doesn't act like it was horrible if he was acting like it was.
[00:16:25] Speaker A: I. I'm sorry, French. I got to put you on pause. Talk your bro just for a second, because you seem real cocky about this.
[00:16:30] Speaker B: I'm just saying, not so horrible because I was thinking about it the other day.
[00:16:34] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:16:34] Speaker B: Not. Well, not the other day, but I was, like, it needed to happen.
[00:16:38] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:16:39] Speaker B: Because it was a thing that was holding me back. Right? Because. Well, because so subconsciously, I feel like I knew she wasn't for me. Right? Like, 100% right. And so therefore, I knew that any success that I accomplish, anything that I accomplish would benefit her. And, like. And she didn't.
[00:17:03] Speaker C: She wouldn't appreciate it.
[00:17:04] Speaker B: Was not that she wouldn't appreciate it. It wasn't. It wasn't for her. I didn't. Yeah, it wasn't for her. It wouldn't.
[00:17:11] Speaker A: It wasn't for her to take gift.
[00:17:12] Speaker B: Right.
[00:17:12] Speaker A: It was just someone else should be receiving this.
[00:17:15] Speaker B: Right. And I. And I knew that, like, subconsciously. Subconsciously, because, you know, I'm now in a different mode. Right. Like, as far as things that I'm trying to do in my life that I wasn't like, that I was. I was complacent. I was willing to just be at a certain level and not in. Not do any more because I knew that anything more would give her additional blessings that I felt like weren't for her. Right.
[00:17:40] Speaker A: Oh, see, I thought you meant.
[00:17:41] Speaker C: I see what you're saying now.
[00:17:42] Speaker A: I thought you meant more along the lines of she wasn't prepared to do her part in helping to get those.
[00:17:47] Speaker B: Well, that's. That. That. That as well, though. That was. That was part of it. But.
[00:17:50] Speaker C: Yeah, that requires understanding.
[00:17:52] Speaker B: But. But the. The thing of it is, anything that I do that you benefit from is, again, I don't think. And I'm not. I don't. The right word. I don't know if it's not worth it. You're not. You're not. It's not. You're not worthy of it. Right. Because you have it. You have it. You're.
[00:18:09] Speaker A: You're not even the one.
[00:18:10] Speaker B: Right.
[00:18:10] Speaker A: And you walking around here, right, Taking the benefit from all these things and disrespecting it because you recognize it. It's not almost like. It's almost like everybody in this situation knows.
[00:18:19] Speaker B: Right.
[00:18:19] Speaker A: But we're just kind of playing along. You feel like she knew, too.
[00:18:23] Speaker B: No, I guarantee she knew. Because I feel like whatever happened when. When it ended, I don't think that was the beginning. I think that's something that had been happening.
[00:18:32] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:18:33] Speaker B: And I just didn't know.
[00:18:35] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:18:35] Speaker B: Until after the fact. Okay, so.
[00:18:37] Speaker A: So everybody. All guys out there right now who are contemplating divorce, like, I can't do it. Mac is telling you, choose yourself. Listen, that's a good message. I don't. You know, it's not necessarily a good message, but it can be a good message for something.
[00:18:50] Speaker B: Somebody that balance. Yeah. No, with that balance. If you. If you have any inkling that.
[00:18:56] Speaker A: No, come on.
[00:18:57] Speaker B: That's.
[00:18:57] Speaker A: That's a stretch now. If you just like a mustard seed of doubt.
[00:19:00] Speaker B: Listen, listen, listen. If you. If you. Actions. Listen. This is what I. This is what. You know, actions speak louder than words.
[00:19:06] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:19:07] Speaker B: If them actions ain't there, there you go. Right. If them actions don't represent any of that word talk that's coming across your line.
[00:19:13] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:19:13] Speaker B: Then that is the same thing.
[00:19:15] Speaker A: If there's any doubt, because.
[00:19:16] Speaker B: Right.
[00:19:17] Speaker A: You doubt. I doubt myself a million times a day.
[00:19:19] Speaker B: Right.
[00:19:20] Speaker A: I would never get shit done if I. If I lived off that. If he doubted, don't do it.
[00:19:23] Speaker B: No, no, no. So I'm not. Not doubt. Not doubting yourself, but doubting the relationship. Right. The validity of it. Right. If. If you're like, man, I'm doing all the work, or I feel like, you know, I mean, it's not being reciprocated. It's not, you know, it's not equal, whatever the case may be. Right.
[00:19:38] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:19:39] Speaker B: It's not appreciative with all the. That you do whatever the case, any of that step.
[00:19:44] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:19:44] Speaker B: I mean, listen or don't listen. Don't, don't, you know. But I'm telling you, I feel like I'm better for it.
[00:19:49] Speaker A: Okay. Congratulations. I think sometimes it's difficult to.
To see what's going on when you're inside of it.
[00:19:56] Speaker B: Without a doubt.
[00:19:57] Speaker A: You gotta get some perspective.
[00:19:58] Speaker B: I don't know if you ever remember that text message that I sent to you, like, when it first happened, and I was like, man, you realize that your whole world was a lie? Like, your everything that you thought was the way was not really. And it was like the veil had come off and now I could see shit for what it really was. And I'm like, oh, this some bullshit.
[00:20:21] Speaker A: It was me.
Like, I'm the one the cameras was pointed at, right when this shit was happening, right?
It's somewhere. There's people laughing right now. I'm the joke, right?
[00:20:31] Speaker B: And I let the. Wow. Like, I can't believe that this. I let this do like this for this long.
[00:20:38] Speaker A: Like, how long do you think you resented that feeling?
[00:20:41] Speaker B: Oh, boy.
[00:20:42] Speaker A: Or do you still resist?
[00:20:42] Speaker B: Yeah, I think I still have. I still struggle with that sometimes. Like, well, and. And I keep telling yourself. I was like, listen, if you could forgive everybody else but not yourself, like, you got to be able to forgive yourself for that too, bro. Like, I. But I'm like, dude, how do you better than that, though, right? Like, how did. How the. Did you not see these things that you can see now, right? But you. I mean, if you can see them now, how come you couldn't see them then and you allowed this shit to go this way, this long, huh?
[00:21:12] Speaker A: Do you feel like you're a people pleaser Yeah. I heard something either today or yesterday that they said it's okay to be a people pleaser as long as you're included in that.
[00:21:21] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:21:22] Speaker A: And I think that's the problem with people pleasers is they don't conclude. They do people please for everyone but themselves.
[00:21:28] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:21:28] Speaker A: But it's okay to do that as long as one of the people that you're pleasing is you.
[00:21:32] Speaker B: Right.
[00:21:33] Speaker A: And that's what you got to remember to do. I don't know, maybe throw that in there.
[00:21:36] Speaker B: No. And I think. Yeah. You know, it's funny because, like, I was talking to my mom about this, you know, because without the weed smoking, right? And she's like, man, you know, it's been a long time, and I didn't know if you would, you know, ever go stop smoking weed. Right. And I was like, in that situation, I don't know if I could have to be honest with you. I think that something to cope. Yeah. I think. I think that was like the mask that helped me kind of, you know, have that fog over the entire situation and not, you know, have to deal with it, the reality of it.
[00:22:11] Speaker A: You don't probably remember that, but you told me one time, I don't even.
[00:22:14] Speaker C: I don't.
[00:22:15] Speaker A: I don't know how you. It was a negative. It was negative. I don't know what the insult was. The. The premise was you couldn't understand how I could be a person that wouldn't smell like, why would you want to deal with this shit? Like, I'd be wanting to. I don't want to have to deal with that. Like, you're sitting there complaining, but I'm not going to deal with that.
[00:22:29] Speaker B: Yeah, No, I said that about, like, life. I remember saying. I was like, I don't know how. Motherfuckers don't. Right. Like, how. How people just go around every day just, you know, dealing with. With the world without, you know.
[00:22:41] Speaker A: And now I.
Yeah, I partake.
[00:22:47] Speaker B: Yeah. Hey, shout out to, you know what?
Psilocybin.
[00:22:53] Speaker A: You took some of that recently?
[00:22:55] Speaker B: No, but I knew somebody who did.
[00:22:57] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:22:58] Speaker B: And I might know somebody who's got the plug.
[00:23:02] Speaker A: Oh, wow.
[00:23:03] Speaker B: And so, yeah, it's.
It's. It's a different. It's a. There's. There. It's weird, right, Because, Fred, you always talks about these, like, different realms, and I think that something. There's something to that. Right. Like, I think that it could just be hallucinating. Right. Or whatever. Right. But I think, like, there is a reality, like, where you start to see beyond what you normally see, right? And it's crazy. Crazy it is.
[00:23:31] Speaker A: See, you going make me do this, man. I was trying not to ruin drugs, bro. But I'm thinking this, there's some too. Maybe not maybe.
Why is it that all these see the same thing?
[00:23:43] Speaker B: I don't know.
[00:23:44] Speaker A: If you do know, you hear this. I met Gaia or whatever the mother bitch's name is and she, she.
The L's came, the L's came and then now how would everybody have the exact same experience, bro? I'm starting to think that's some bullshit too.
[00:24:01] Speaker C: And I.
[00:24:02] Speaker A: You made me do this.
[00:24:03] Speaker B: But I didn't see Guy. I mean, I mean the person that I, the person that I know that took it didn't see Gaia or Elf or any of that.
[00:24:11] Speaker A: Maybe that's some better terms, right?
[00:24:13] Speaker B: It might be.
[00:24:13] Speaker A: Well, you know, I'm actually thinking some of something else like DMT or Ohio.
[00:24:17] Speaker C: They always say they see God.
[00:24:19] Speaker B: But what it, but what it was was it was a enlightening of thought, right? Like that was because again I don't think that this person was on a full like dose like Reggie be going to. To like Saturn, right? Like it wasn't that, right? Like I think there was still a connection with this reality but the. There was still a distortion and it's almost like.
[00:24:43] Speaker A: So are we in the two gram area where we.
[00:24:45] Speaker B: Not even.
[00:24:45] Speaker A: Oh really?
[00:24:46] Speaker B: Not even. It's almost a gram.
[00:24:48] Speaker A: I think the most I ever went up to was 1 5.
[00:24:50] Speaker B: Yeah, it was almost. It was like 1 gram.
[00:24:51] Speaker A: Yeah, the most I went to was 1 5. And it was like I was telling you when I got up to that level because I was microdosing at first, right. And I'd gotten up to 15 just because I wanted to feel a little bit of the, the psycho, right? What's the word I'm looking right now? Psycho.
[00:25:07] Speaker B: Psychoactive.
[00:25:08] Speaker A: Psychoactive, whatever.
And what I felt like is that it was great about introducing things that I had closed away in compartments, right. However, there was never a solution.
And so it just reopened that I had nice and.
Nice and tightly packed away for good reason, you know what I'm saying? Like I wanted that to stay in that box. Hit his come back, you know, I'm saying this gonna walk down the street.
[00:25:35] Speaker C: That's how sometimes when people take a higher dosage, they get a bad trip because those things are in front of them and they gotta actually.
[00:25:44] Speaker A: Right.
[00:25:44] Speaker C: But do something about it.
[00:25:45] Speaker A: So then what's the best. I'm saying though. But if there's never a solution.
[00:25:49] Speaker B: It's. It's always that, you know, that was the whole thing. Nobody. They'll be bringing up no problems if you ain't got a solution like that.
Don't do that. Like, I'm not. I'm not here for that.
[00:25:58] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:25:58] Speaker B: I. I just wanna. I just wanna enjoy myself.
[00:26:03] Speaker A: Yeah. So that was my. That was my difficulty with. With mushrooms. I don't know that they were necessarily. It was a bad feeling, though. I. I never. It never. I know people were saying, like, they get nauseous and stuff. I never felt any of that, but it just. And maybe because it was. I was writing that sweet spot before, I should have did a little bit more or something, or maybe not as much. I don't know.
[00:26:22] Speaker B: Yeah, I'm French.
[00:26:24] Speaker A: We like, four. You like four grams or something, right?
[00:26:27] Speaker C: Yeah, usually I take three, five, but I've taken seven, eight grams.
And that's when you go to, like, Saturn and shit. That's when you, like, you feel like your soul gets out of your body and you now travel as, like, a light beam.
[00:26:43] Speaker B: See that? I'm telling you, I couldn't even imagine 7 or 8. Right. Like, because now I've done 3.5 before and I think.
[00:26:51] Speaker C: I don't think it fucked me up, but I think. What? It. What?
[00:26:56] Speaker A: What? You don't think seven or eight grams, you. Up. What do you mean by up?
[00:27:01] Speaker B: Like.
[00:27:01] Speaker C: Like. Like in my personal life.
[00:27:03] Speaker A: Oh, I thought you meant, like, got you high.
[00:27:04] Speaker C: No, no, no. I was. I was gone. Like.
[00:27:06] Speaker A: But.
[00:27:07] Speaker C: But interacting with people in my personal life.
[00:27:10] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:27:10] Speaker C: I'm realizing how it may have impacted them because now I. I am very.
So at peace that things don't bother me. And then this is why it's going back to my topic, to the point.
[00:27:24] Speaker A: We never got to it.
[00:27:25] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. It's going to go back to my topic, especially, like, in my relationship, because I don't really get emotional no more because, like, it got me to feel pretty much when I got that high, I felt like, oh, nothing. When people say nothing matters, like, you're really nothing. Yeah, I. I really understood that. Not. Doesn't mean that I don't care about anything.
[00:27:44] Speaker A: Right.
[00:27:44] Speaker C: But I really understood the power of that. Right.
[00:27:46] Speaker A: Specifically to your relationship, though. Let's mature the thought, though.
[00:27:49] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah.
[00:27:49] Speaker A: Because some women feel like, no emotion. That's the problem is negative emotion then.
[00:27:56] Speaker C: And that's when. Yeah.
[00:27:57] Speaker A: And.
[00:27:57] Speaker C: And in my relationship, I was like, yo, why are you all right? Why are you so bad? Like, it's not even that. Like, it's not even that big of a problem, you know? Like.
[00:28:05] Speaker A: Right.
[00:28:06] Speaker C: Sometimes I used to get mad at the reason that she's mad. Not even because she's mad. I'm like, you don't have to be this mad.
[00:28:12] Speaker B: Right. And I think that. And then it's like, you discounting me and my feelings and how I feel.
[00:28:17] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:28:17] Speaker B: So we.
[00:28:17] Speaker C: We definitely worked it out. But it got me to think, because we used to have those conversations, and we were. And we the type of people, we don't mind having the difficult conversations because apparently some people in relationships avoid those conversations. We don't. So we really worked on those things early to the point. Now I feel like, yo, the only thing you can complain about is me. Cause now it's like little things. Like, now if we argue, it's semantics. It's not even arguments. It's like, French.
[00:28:46] Speaker A: Y'all gonna fuck around and work so much. Y'all be ready for divorce by the time y'all get married.
[00:28:51] Speaker C: And that's the point. That's not the point. Like, we about to do. We about to do, like, counseling.
[00:28:56] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:28:57] Speaker C: And April. April 1st was my first. First appointment.
[00:29:00] Speaker A: April fools don't show up.
[00:29:02] Speaker C: But, like, we was joking about. I was like, yo. I was like, yo. Cause I was telling her, like, I feel like. And I wasn't even blaming her. I think that's a women thing. I think y'all will always find y'all don't have a satisfaction bar. It's like, once you satisfied, okay.
[00:29:16] Speaker B: Just ready to find.
[00:29:17] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:29:18] Speaker B: Us.
[00:29:18] Speaker C: Once we're satisfied, we're good.
[00:29:20] Speaker A: I'm a chill here.
[00:29:21] Speaker C: And that's what I was trying to tell. I was like, yo, I don't think.
[00:29:24] Speaker A: I think.
[00:29:25] Speaker C: I was like.
[00:29:25] Speaker A: I think, like, if I give you.
[00:29:26] Speaker C: The world, you're gonna be like, yeah, but you forgot the star.
[00:29:28] Speaker B: Like.
[00:29:29] Speaker C: Like, it doesn't really matter. So that's why I was saying, like, do you think if you work out all the problems in your relationship, the only thing left to complain is you the man.
[00:29:41] Speaker B: This is the thing, like, as far as that emotional thing, right? Because I remember being in a relationship like that where I was at a very Zen place. This is after my. After my first marriage.
And I was just like, that. That was an experience into itself, right? Because it was a constant battle, right? Like, it was constant argument. And this. That. It was like, it was no peace, right? In real talk. But then afterwards. So I was like, listen, I'm never getting to that. I'm never Going through that again, right? Like, I'm now gonna be in a situation where there's no peace. So I'm gonna create my own piece, right? Like, and I'm not gonna allow other things to, to dictate my piece, right? So if you feel some kind of way, feel that way.
I have. I mean, that's not gonna get me there though, right? I don't. It's not important to me just because it's. And I know and, and I know that that might sound weird or like up, but just because something's a thing to you, it. I can't make it a thing to me if it's not a thing to me, right? Like, and so if it's not a thing to me and just, you know, little shit too, right? Like, so I was, you know, dating this chicken and her, she had some of her things were the making the bed thing, right? And I'm like, that's not my thing, right? I mean, and, and at the time, just, you know, my processing is like, I'm gonna get back in this. And now I understand, right? Like, I make the bed because it, there is a different feel getting into a made up bed. But I mean, I mean my. But I'm in my 20s at the time and I'm like, listen, I don't feel like that's something that's important to me right now. Like, because again, especially if I'm going to get back in and mess it up and who's going to see it during the time when it's made like, I'm not having any company over to see this shit. So it seems like a process that is a little bit unnecessary for me so that I'm not gonna do that. If you want to do that, do it. And. But it was a whole thing, all of those like similar situations where something was important to her that she was like this, I need to do it this way. I need to have something done this way. And I'm like, well, that's important to you. It's not important to me. So I'm not gonna do that, right? I'm not gonna stress out and let you stress me out about something I don't give a fuck about. And if you're upset, I'll ask you about it. But if it sounds like it's something that is kind of like you tripping about little shit, I'm just gonna leave it alone. I'm not gonna make it a debate. I'm not gonna get all deep into it and act like it's A whole bigger deal. Like you are making it a big deal. When I don't feel like it's a big deal.
[00:32:11] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:32:11] Speaker A: I feel like what I've learned, you know, over the years is that a lot of times I feel like 90% of the issues that men and women have against each other in relationships or with each other are, I would say 90%, is insecurity. And I think that it's very hard to recognize insecurity in other people that you're involved with. It's easy for me to see like that something on one of you, but for the person I'm involved, it's a little more difficult because we've grown to a place where we mask it so much, where we'll mask our insecurities from that person because they can't see us insecure. But. But I think that the way that I started recognizing, you know, over the years, how to. To pinpoint it and other people that I'm involved with is by first recognizing what I'm insecure about. So when I'm in an argument or there's a back and forth going in the moment, I'm going to say some stupid shit later, I'm a reflect. And the questions I'm going to ask myself are, did I say that based off of an ego problem or a real problem?
[00:33:12] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:33:13] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? And usually that ego problem is. It means it's insecurity. It's. It's not even it. You. You said something hurtful, but it was not because you wanted to hurt that per. You didn't want to hurt that person. It's not because of what they said to you. It's because what they said made you feel insecure about some shit you was all you were already feeling.
[00:33:30] Speaker B: Right? Right.
[00:33:31] Speaker A: And the difference is, is that once you start pinpointing that in yourself and you start recognizing that shit in yourself, you start being able to see it clear as day in them as well. And it makes you not respond because you recognize that the reason why they're saying it is because they're insecure.
[00:33:46] Speaker C: Yeah. So that was. That's where I used to fuck up at, because I didn't have that insecurity. So I was always blind. I was like, yo, why are you feeling that way? And the conversations. A lot of it, too, is insecurity, but a lot of it too is upbringing. I realize how upbringing impacts a lot.
[00:34:01] Speaker B: You know, like child traumas and shit. What are you talking about?
[00:34:04] Speaker C: Like kid trauma. Just the way you was brought up. Things that were missing that you had. Like, let's say I had something in my life but you didn't. So I'm thinking everything's okay. And then to you, that means a lot. Like, for. I remember early in our relationship, small talk. Used to. I didn't really do small talk. Like, she comes home, was like, how was work? You say, good, I keep it moving. Right, right.
That's good enough. But she always wanted me to ask more. And I was like, if you want to talk, we can talk. But. But. But when we had those conversations, the reason why she felt so, like, bad when I just didn't ask. More conversations. Dukes. A lot of times growing up, she felt like nobody heard her. Nobody, you know? So now she wants to talk. She want to be able to bring that inner child that she couldn't experience in her relationship. Now that I understand that, cool. But if I didn't have that upbringing, and I'm like, yo, when I wanted to talk, I could always talk. If I knew, I will be blind to that. You would have to come and tell me. And sometimes it's that miscommunication because she may not even know why she feels that way.
[00:35:06] Speaker A: Right.
[00:35:06] Speaker C: And then she comes at you a certain way. You'd be like, okay, but why are you that mad? And then, you know, so.
[00:35:12] Speaker A: But she's being able to see that, though.
[00:35:14] Speaker C: Now it's. Now I know how important that is for us. So the thing. That's why I'm realizing I was like, hold up. We're gonna get to a point where I feel like the only thing you might be able to complain about is me. And I understand.
[00:35:25] Speaker A: And what does that mean? I keep saying that. What does that mean?
[00:35:27] Speaker C: I just feel like sometimes they don't charge things.
[00:35:30] Speaker A: Hair on your head.
[00:35:31] Speaker C: No, sometimes they don't charge. Thanks to the game. Like.
[00:35:33] Speaker A: Like, you know, sometimes women don't.
[00:35:36] Speaker C: Yeah, they don't charge. Like, they have to say something. Like, sometimes we know when they're tripping. We just. Okay, she's just tripping. I'm gonna let her have it. But when we're tripping, they have to say something about it. They don't let us have it.
[00:35:48] Speaker A: Gotcha.
[00:35:48] Speaker C: That's the part I'm talking about. Like, we know when. Like, okay, I'm gonna just let you have that. And I feel like they don't give us that same grace.
You see what I'm saying?
[00:35:59] Speaker A: Yeah, but there's no solution for that shit.
[00:36:02] Speaker C: That's what I'm saying. That's why I'm going back to the point where, like, you get to a point.
[00:36:06] Speaker A: I could have told you that when I was your age.
I didn't need wisdom for that answer.
[00:36:10] Speaker C: But I'm saying. But when you're in a relationship and you want to make it work, and then you be like, yo, why do. Why did she annoy me today?
You start to. Those are the things I was talking about.
[00:36:20] Speaker B: Let's go back to the W, boy. I'm telling you.
[00:36:24] Speaker C: That's what I'm saying. It's like.
[00:36:26] Speaker B: Like, let me just. Let me just pay it and then go home, man. Like, I mean, let me have fun tonight. Fucking do everything I want to do. You know what I mean? And you and your friend, I pay double. I ain't tripping. I'm going home afterwards, though, alone.
[00:36:42] Speaker A: It was some CRO Magnons talking about that shit. My rage, that shit has never changed. We've never figured it out. We're way too stupid.
[00:36:49] Speaker C: And that's what I real. I'm like, I'm gonna just have to. Because I'll be trying to fix every little problem. Like, yo, this one right here, though, it's like, I don't know what it is. It will never get fixed.
[00:37:01] Speaker B: So I like the one where. Where they say that they don't want you to fix it. Right. You just think they going off on some telling you a problem.
[00:37:08] Speaker A: Yeah. Don't make solutions for everything.
[00:37:10] Speaker B: Right. And I'm like, I like, so listen. Fine, listen. You don't want. Listen, that's cool. Because it's going to be like, what French Reg is talking about. I heard you. I heard your problem.
[00:37:19] Speaker A: Right.
[00:37:20] Speaker B: Okay.
[00:37:20] Speaker A: It's hard for me to. It's hard for me to window shop a conversation. Yeah, but they can window shop. Like, I can't window shop. If I'm going to. If I have an idea, oh, I want to get a motorcycle. I'm not going and looking at motorcycles for 50 weeks, nigga. The first one or two times, I'm gonna do my research at home. The first one or two times I'm in a motorcycle store, I'm gonna buy.
[00:37:41] Speaker B: A motorcycle, test riding that bitch, and be like, let's go, and we're done. Gone.
[00:37:44] Speaker A: I'm not gonna shop for three months. And, well, you know, there may be a new one that come. No, I don't give a shit about none of that. But they can window shop and look at purses and bags and try stuff on even. They're not gonna get it. No. No intention of even getting it.
And I feel like it's the same in conversation. They wanna window shop a conversation, whereas a guy's like, what the fuck is the point of this conversation? Are we not gonna get to a resolution at the end of this? Can I help you with something, ma'am?
[00:38:08] Speaker B: Listen, hold up.
[00:38:09] Speaker A: I'm here to help.
[00:38:10] Speaker B: I mean, like, you seem like you have a problem that you can't figure out.
[00:38:13] Speaker A: Guess what?
[00:38:14] Speaker B: I gotta express this solution.
[00:38:16] Speaker A: I got ideas like a motherfucker.
[00:38:17] Speaker B: I got ideas. Like, I don't need for you to say. I just need you to listen.
[00:38:21] Speaker A: So at the end of this conversation, what have we done? Listen, you've heard me, okay?
[00:38:25] Speaker B: Right?
[00:38:25] Speaker A: And that's window shopping. And that's the difference is women window shop when they're in conversations.
[00:38:30] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:38:30] Speaker A: Like, they can do it.
[00:38:32] Speaker B: I'm like. I don't. Listen, I'm not gonna bring anything to you that I don't want help with. Like, if I. If. If I'm like, hey, listen, this is what I got going on. I'm looking for. I'm looking for some advice. I'm looking for some suggestions. Because I'm fucking. I don't have.
[00:38:44] Speaker A: I want to tell you. And you'd be like, I don't know.
[00:38:46] Speaker B: I don't know. Or if I just sit there and I tell you that, and you'd be like, okay, cool. No, that's not what. That's cool. I'm not here for. I'm not here for that. Like, I'm here to buy. Cool.
[00:38:58] Speaker A: I want to call you out your name.
[00:39:00] Speaker B: I'm here to buy. So listen, do you got something to sell? Because if not, then I just won't bring it to you no more. If you just. If you just over here, like, with that.
[00:39:10] Speaker C: How do y'all.
[00:39:10] Speaker A: How do y'all feel, though, when your girl's just real quiet, like, she don't really want to. Like, she's being you.
[00:39:16] Speaker C: You'd be trying to figure out what you did wrong.
[00:39:18] Speaker A: Do you feel uncomfortable?
[00:39:19] Speaker B: Yeah, because it's not right. It's not normal. Right.
[00:39:21] Speaker A: The force is on something wrong.
[00:39:24] Speaker C: Yeah, you awfully quiet.
[00:39:26] Speaker B: Like, oh, you don't feel like shopping.
[00:39:28] Speaker A: Today, and then they flip it on you. Oh, but when I want you to talk about, yo, damn, they got you again.
[00:39:33] Speaker B: They got you again, right?
[00:39:34] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:39:36] Speaker B: That's the thing, though. You can't be acting like a dude. Like, I ain't ask you like you do. You. And stay. Stay consistent. You. You. Because when you flip it up now, I'm like, what is what are we doing here? Yeah, we're this new company. What's this new. So. And I. And I remember. I've thought about this too, right? About how I used to say, like, you know, I want you to kind of gradually work me up to your. Your freaking. Like your freakiness. Right. I don't know.
[00:40:00] Speaker A: The first date. Yeah, but keep your panties on.
[00:40:03] Speaker B: Right? Well, just, you know, don't, don't, don't give me. Don't give me the total freaking. Like how nasty you can be in the first night. Right, right. But then I just, I. I realized that you can't sneak that shit on me later on though, because I know up front. Well, it's like. Well, hold up. Where does come from?
[00:40:19] Speaker A: Exactly.
[00:40:20] Speaker B: Like. Like, you ain't this. Is this new?
[00:40:22] Speaker A: How could you hide this?
[00:40:23] Speaker B: Yeah, like this. Where this bit? Like, when did this get discovered? Did you just discover this? And with who you Gaga Mail. Right. Like you. I need. I need. But again, I got issues with that now. You know just which one.
[00:40:38] Speaker A: So now you want them to show you up front?
[00:40:40] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:40:40] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, me too.
[00:40:41] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah.
[00:40:42] Speaker A: I mean, it's. I don't understand how you can be the guy who says, I'm gonna take a girl to her first date in a laundromat so I can let her see what it is and see what it is. Right, but then you want to tiptoe around the pussy, right? I need to see all of it at the laundromat.
[00:40:55] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:40:55] Speaker A: Spin cycle, my nigga.
Extra Rent.
[00:40:59] Speaker C: That's a bar right there.
[00:41:00] Speaker B: No doubt, no doubt, no doubt.
[00:41:02] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:41:02] Speaker C: So it's just. Ain't no way around it.
[00:41:04] Speaker A: No cook, bro, just. And I'm not. And I'm not saying. Here's what I'm not saying, because I think that there is a large group of men not even. Not even all the way simps. But there's a gray area between simp and a real. It's a lot of that feel like that. Happy wife, happy life.
[00:41:20] Speaker C: Oh, no, no, no.
[00:41:21] Speaker A: That don't be a pushover.
[00:41:25] Speaker B: If a chick tell me that, I.
[00:41:26] Speaker C: Don'T think a girl would want to stay with you.
[00:41:28] Speaker B: That's a. That's one of them hard nose. That's a hard. No. If. If I hear you say some like.
[00:41:33] Speaker A: That, even if you've been with like.
[00:41:34] Speaker B: Three years, I don't give a. Soon as I come out your mouth, as soon as that come out your mouth, it's a. It's a rap.
[00:41:40] Speaker A: Yeah. Don't be a pushover. You still Got to hold your ground.
[00:41:43] Speaker B: Because you know what that, that I mean without he feels this. I do, I do. Yeah. Because. Because again, what that's if as the woman what you're saying, it's all about you. Yeah, I mean, you're letting me know right now. It ain't about. It ain't about us, it ain't about me. It's all about you. If you. If that's some shit that you spouting out your mouth, right? That's what you telling me, that this shit is all about you. And at this point, you let me know what it is. You know what I mean? Like, I see. I see where you at the laundromat. I see where you at with yours. Exactly.
[00:42:16] Speaker A: Before you put your pussy out.
[00:42:17] Speaker B: Right. Like you could have said this shit on the first night. Like, let me know.
[00:42:21] Speaker C: Yeah.
Now that happy. I don't know how that. That's programming again.
[00:42:26] Speaker B: I don't know how Steve Harvey out here talking that.
[00:42:28] Speaker A: Oh, Steve.
[00:42:29] Speaker C: Was that Steve Harvey that.
[00:42:30] Speaker B: Yeah, like this. Oh, yeah, yeah. He be talking like he asked a some and he laughed at him. He's like, what? You know, cuz the dude was like, you know, I don't want to. You know, I'm not concerned about necessarily her being happy all the time. And he like what? He laughed. He's like youngster and try to son him like, bro, you don't. You gotta understand how this works. And I'm like, nah, see you we out here doing that, man. And it's. I'll never forget when I first came to Atlanta for a wedding, just.
[00:42:58] Speaker C: Oh, you switched the conversation.
[00:42:59] Speaker A: No, no, no.
[00:43:01] Speaker B: I came to visit for a wedding.
[00:43:02] Speaker C: Like, what did Steve say?
[00:43:04] Speaker B: No, no, but so listen. So it's. But he's, he's. I'm gonna bring it back, I'm gonna bring it back to this.
[00:43:09] Speaker A: All right?
[00:43:09] Speaker B: Because he was. I watched this show and then we was in a hotel room and they had, you know, hotel channels. Right? Sure. So I don't know what it is, but there's like this social experiment that they were doing and it was weird because I'm. I mean, I'm stuck watching this. And basically they had a. In a room and they would bring in a rando and it would, you know, this siren would go off and the would stand up and I think they were waiting for jobs like a job interview or something. And dude would stand up every time this beat would go off. And the dude. First person has come for an interview, he's like, what the is going on, like. I don't know. I don't. Why are you standing up? So he. But the dude ain't saying nothing, right?
[00:43:46] Speaker A: Right.
[00:43:46] Speaker B: Why he's standing up? He's just doing it.
[00:43:48] Speaker A: I already know what you're gonna say.
[00:43:49] Speaker B: And then after a minute of this dude, every time the sound going off, he starts sounding. You know, he starts standing up too, right? He's like, okay, I guess this is what we supposed to do, right? And then they. They take the dude who was the original person in there right out. And then the leave dude in there by himself. Be so even with nobody else in there, this is doing it now. He's standing up.
So then they bring in another beat. This starts teaching him, like, hey, yo, when this beep go off, you're supposed to stand up like this. Like, this is. No one's. The words. No words have ever come out of anybody's mouth. This is what he's doing. But now this motherfucker's teaching people to do this. And it's the same thing, like to Steve Harvey, like, somebody taught this. Like, if you don't take care of your woman or you don't give her everything that she asked for, or if she ain't happy, you ain't gonna be happy. Well, listen, we could be some miserable motherfuckers or we cannot be together or whatever, but her happiness is not.
[00:44:44] Speaker C: Because if she ain't happy, you're not gonna.
[00:44:46] Speaker A: Well, no, no, no, but let's.
[00:44:47] Speaker B: But her happiness doesn't supersede mine.
[00:44:49] Speaker C: Hold on, Max, stop for a second.
[00:44:50] Speaker A: Right where you at, though, right before you even get to that last statement you made, right? The idea I have is, okay, from this point, I'm at right now where I'm at this. I'm with this woman, and she wants the world, and I'm trying to give it to her. And she's always asking for one more thing, right? At that point, is it easier to try to find happiness by yourself or to make her happy? And that's the crazy part about it, is it's easier to find it by yourself, for sure. But the idea is, nah, you gotta keep your woman happy. You gotta do whatever she wants, whatever she needs. You gotta, you know, break your back trying to get that. Actually, it'd be easier to find happiness by myself.
[00:45:28] Speaker C: To be honest with you. For me, the way I look at it, if I. I feel like I have to do that, that means you don't love me. Like. Like, honestly, I look at it like she gotta really, like, think I'm the greatest thing of all time. Like, you gotta sell me that. Even though I'm not, but I gotta feel that.
[00:45:46] Speaker B: Happy husband. Happy, happy man. Happy man, Happy man.
[00:45:51] Speaker C: This isn't really necessarily happiness. It's just like.
Like, you gotta really be my support system. If I feel like I gotta do all of this to keep you happy, where is my support in this? So I. One, you got to be able to have, like, your own individual happiness. That way, whatever situation life throws at us, that you can still be at an emotional level where you could be. Where you could, like, be okay. And two, like, we. We doing this together. So I really want to feel like we're together. I don't want to think like, oh, man, oh, I didn't do this, or she's not going to be happy.
I never want to have that stress.
[00:46:27] Speaker B: I feel like you got to be, you know, we gotta just like, co op. That gay. That gay term, you know? I mean.
[00:46:34] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, yeah, for sure.
[00:46:37] Speaker B: Like, if it's. If it's not. If we're not partners. Yeah. We ain't shit.
[00:46:40] Speaker A: What I'm hearing a lot is, is that people. I think people across the board, men and women, how people are combating this new war between men and women, especially the gender roles.
[00:46:50] Speaker C: Can you up sometimes who. The gender roles.
[00:46:52] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. But what I'm saying is, though, I think what I'm. What I'm hearing the. Nobody said it yet, but what I'm hearing. You guys just gave your additions. I'm hearing people are wanting to abridge these rules.
[00:47:03] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:47:03] Speaker A: Of what a man does in a relationship and what a woman does in relationship. I think we all recognize that they're kind of outdated. And there's no way that every household is led by a man.
[00:47:13] Speaker B: Right.
[00:47:13] Speaker A: First. First. We have to admit that first and foremost, I don't think every household is led by a man.
[00:47:18] Speaker B: Right.
[00:47:18] Speaker A: I think there's some households with a man in it where the man is not the leader.
[00:47:21] Speaker B: Right.
[00:47:22] Speaker A: And. And we have to figure out if that's okay and how we're going to deal with that, because tradition has told us that the man first and then. Well, God, then the man and the woman and the kids or what. Whatever the. The, you know, the order is.
[00:47:33] Speaker B: Right.
[00:47:34] Speaker A: I think what I'm hearing from a lot of people. Nobody's willing to say it yet, but what I've been hearing a lot. And you guys gave your. Well, it should be like this. I think people are. Are beginning to feel like it's time to rewrite those Rules, for sure.
[00:47:46] Speaker C: And then one key thing, there has.
[00:47:47] Speaker B: To be evolution though, right?
[00:47:49] Speaker C: One key thing you said about leaders. Some people also believe breadwinner means leader automatically.
[00:47:53] Speaker A: Right. And that's not true.
[00:47:54] Speaker C: And that's not true.
[00:47:55] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. The person that makes most money could they have the most power, but they may not be the leader.
[00:48:03] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:48:04] Speaker A: And depending on how you look at the word leader, you may not agree that a leader could be less powerful than somebody, but you have to look at it like this. There's several leaders in the world.
[00:48:13] Speaker B: Unless you pimping. Right. Because I mean, the pimping, you know, he got the power, but he not making the money.
[00:48:19] Speaker A: Right.
[00:48:21] Speaker B: So. So that dynamic is. Is a little different.
[00:48:25] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:48:25] Speaker B: Somehow he. That structure of. Or her.
[00:48:29] Speaker C: Who do you think is having the hardest time with that? The men or the women?
[00:48:32] Speaker A: Man, because the women adapting.
[00:48:34] Speaker C: No problem.
[00:48:35] Speaker B: Nah, nah. Because again, I think with it being a new role for them, like women.
[00:48:41] Speaker A: When you say having the hardest time, you mean emotionally or physically or in action? I mean in action. Oh, in action, yeah. Women. I thought you meant emotionally. So emotionally, men, I think men are having the most problem with emotion because they have to give up something.
[00:48:53] Speaker B: Right.
[00:48:53] Speaker A: Whereas.
[00:48:54] Speaker B: And.
[00:48:54] Speaker A: But see, the problem is what women don't realize is men have to give up something, but they have to live up to something, and they're not willing to do that.
[00:49:00] Speaker C: That part. Yeah. Which is the financial aspect. No, I'm not.
[00:49:03] Speaker B: No. Most women.
[00:49:04] Speaker A: But what I'm saying, we're talking about leaders.
[00:49:06] Speaker C: Okay, my bad. I was trying to bring. Because for me, when I hear that conversation, I hear a lot of women, they feel like now, since they are putting money to the table, that the men are not helping them out because the men are now helping in the household. The men are still feeling like you still should do the household, even though you helping the rest.
[00:49:25] Speaker A: I don't even know if it's household. But let's put like this, right? Me and you going on something. Right?
[00:49:28] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:49:30] Speaker A: You expect me to pay my portion, Right.
[00:49:32] Speaker C: For sure.
[00:49:33] Speaker A: Okay. If there were a situation where I wasn't paying as much, I would have to either have more value to the situation in another way.
[00:49:40] Speaker B: Right?
[00:49:40] Speaker C: For sure.
[00:49:40] Speaker A: Okay. The thing is, though, is that if I do have what you have, what you're bringing now, we both bringing the same thing. Don't you think I deserve to have a little more say?
Yeah. Right. So now transfer that to your relationship with a woman. For some reason, you've been told all these years that a woman can't be Your equal, because she's a woman. And they're saying, well, fuck, I'm doing a lot of the things that you're doing. Do I get any more say? And guys aren't comfortable giving up that.
[00:50:07] Speaker C: Okay, okay, okay.
[00:50:08] Speaker A: Women aren't living up to the. But see, women aren't. The women who are asking for it are then being lazy about living up to what the expectations are for what being a leader is, though, see? And so fuck them.
[00:50:19] Speaker C: It's.
[00:50:20] Speaker A: You know, fuck the guy who's mad and who won't do it for a woman who's capable. But it's a lot of dudes that's giving up some or being forced to give up some. And the women aren't capable.
[00:50:29] Speaker C: Yeah, it's about to be. It's about to be crazy the next 20 years when it comes to the dynamic of heterosexual relationships.
[00:50:39] Speaker B: Oh, well, why? Why?
[00:50:40] Speaker A: I don't care. I'll be so old by then, it won't even matter. I just ain't cool.
[00:50:44] Speaker C: It's just gonna be, man. It's just gonna be. Because there's that. Does that change? There's the fact that these new kids are. They may not want to be tied down with one person for a long time. They may not want to build. Want to have that commitment.
[00:51:01] Speaker A: I was talking to somebody other day. Y'all got by. Not you. The next. They got bodies, bro. And there was. There was a. There was a space where they got bodies. Now, I think the new kids. These kids are they not. They probably. Yeah, they probably won't have. But that group that was after y'all, the gen Zers to the. Yeah, them got bodies.
[00:51:18] Speaker B: Bodies they exposed.
[00:51:19] Speaker C: Like, I'm telling you.
[00:51:20] Speaker A: Cemeteries.
[00:51:21] Speaker C: 18. I already got only fans. They don't even try to go work at the mall.
[00:51:24] Speaker B: It was like. It was like. It was like the 60s all over again, huh?
[00:51:27] Speaker A: Yeah, they got like.
[00:51:28] Speaker B: It didn't matter. Like, who. Like, we just. We just showing up in closets and, like.
[00:51:32] Speaker C: And they'll go both ways.
[00:51:33] Speaker A: They were.
[00:51:34] Speaker C: And they'll go both ways.
[00:51:35] Speaker A: Oh, so it's like a free for all.
[00:51:37] Speaker C: A lot of them are. A lot of them are like that now.
[00:51:41] Speaker B: Guys, too.
[00:51:42] Speaker C: A lot of more. It's not like a lot of guys, but the percentage definitely increased, man.
[00:51:46] Speaker B: I. I was listening to Suge Knight interview. This was talking about. Oh, boy. From Minister Society.
[00:51:52] Speaker A: Okay.
[00:51:53] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:51:54] Speaker A: What's his name?
Damn, I forget. Tyron.
[00:51:59] Speaker B: Yeah.
[00:52:00] Speaker A: Tyron Turner.
[00:52:00] Speaker B: Yep. And he was like, yeah, that. That was Jamie Foxx. You know what I mean?
[00:52:05] Speaker A: Tyron Turner was.
[00:52:06] Speaker B: Yeah. He said everybody. And he like, listen, I'm not trying. He's. You could tell he's on over the phone. This is from jail. And. And he's like, man, like, I ain't really had no problem. He's like, that's something. And then, like, you know, and he used to. With dreams, you know, but then Dre was with Michelle A. And, you know, these. And I was like, yo, like, nigga, you are. I know that you locked up, but you're being messy as a. Right now.
This nigga's like, this is mad at the world. And he's just telling everybody. He's like, listen, I. You know, but you could just ask. You go to any party out there in Hollywood and, you know, this is a known thing like this. His name. His nigga, his name was Dick sucking Tyrone, you know, or something like, you know, like. Like this, like, his lip. Dick sucking, lip tiring. Like, you could go to any club and probably catching lip tyrant. Crazy, bro. He was. He was going, because I see his lip.
[00:52:57] Speaker A: All I can see is lip now, bro.
[00:52:59] Speaker B: He was the bottom one, right?
Am I wrong? No. It is funny because when women are like that, right? And they got them. Them big lips and they got the. And then it's like people, you know, and a come up to him, be like, oh, your lips is you. You have to understand what we're saying.
[00:53:20] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:53:20] Speaker B: We listen. And you know what it is, too, right? Like, I mean, that's crazy, though, man. Yeah.
[00:53:26] Speaker A: I don't even think about this no more. Speaking of movies. All right, you guys, give me. Give me a One of your favorites. What's one of your favorite movies? That's why I didn't say your favorite. I said one of your favorites.
[00:53:35] Speaker B: Right? Right.
[00:53:36] Speaker A: Give me or two of your favorites.
[00:53:37] Speaker B: So I'm gonna tell you, this is what I would say the movie. Because I saw this. I looked at the notes earlier in the day. Yeah. So I had time to formulate this. The thought around this.
[00:53:47] Speaker A: Right.
[00:53:47] Speaker B: And I was like, what would be my favorite movie? But then I thought about it. If this movie's on, even if I could have access to it, yeah, I'm gonna watch it. But if it's on, I'm not stopping. I'm gonna. It's. I'm gonna watch it at any part of the movie. Tropic Thunder.
[00:54:03] Speaker A: Tropic Thunder.
[00:54:03] Speaker C: Okay.
[00:54:04] Speaker B: Like that. That. I. I. And it's one of those. I wanted to say Matrix, but the Matrix lost its effect to me after I. You Know, after I've seen it and it kind of, you know, I know what it's. Everything is going on. Tropic Thunder never gets old, right? To me, like, not. I mean, like, I'm gonna tag you back.
[00:54:21] Speaker A: Yeah.
[00:54:21] Speaker B: And what do you think Song for the Jefferson.
[00:54:24] Speaker A: What do you think that has in it that. That makes you feel like that?
[00:54:27] Speaker B: Just memorable punch lines, right? Memorable lines in it from.
I mean, just all of it, right? Like, you know, like, when I. My man, we was on the cruise, and my sister dumped some water on me, and I was like, I'm gonna take you back, right? Like, I mean, like, that is. I just felt like that was me, like, when he got slapped. Like, okay, he got me, nigga, but I'm gonna tag you back, right? Don't best believe that, right? And it's just. I mean, like, you people, right? Who you people, right?
[00:54:58] Speaker A: What you got, French?
[00:54:59] Speaker C: I was first. I was gonna just say Forrest Gump. Because. Because first I was gonna say Forrest Gump, but thinking now, if I want to watch it all the time, probably be the Dark Knight.
[00:55:11] Speaker A: I just asked you for one of your favorites, bro.
[00:55:13] Speaker C: Forrest Gump and the Dark Knight.
[00:55:15] Speaker A: Forrest Gump and the Dark Knight. Why Forrest Gump?
[00:55:17] Speaker C: Because you can get all emotions from that, watching that one movie.
[00:55:20] Speaker A: Like what?
[00:55:21] Speaker C: All levels of emotion. Pain, sadness, laughter, all of it. You go through it.
[00:55:25] Speaker B: What's funny in Forest Gump?
[00:55:26] Speaker A: Do you get that from Tropic Thunder also? Do you get, like, a mixture of things?
[00:55:30] Speaker B: Nah, I just get laughter.
[00:55:30] Speaker A: It's just laughter. I mean, there's explosions in people's arms and stuff. Like, there's go. No, there's other emotions besides laughing.
[00:55:37] Speaker B: It's all funny to me. Like, he's like, you don't understand, man. I'm gonna do all the drugs, right? Like, if you take me down there, but do all the drinks.
[00:55:45] Speaker A: What else? For instance, and far as Gump. I mean, the other one. What was the other one?
[00:55:48] Speaker C: Dark Knight.
[00:55:49] Speaker A: Dark Knight. What about that?
[00:55:49] Speaker B: What.
[00:55:50] Speaker A: What attracts you to that movie?
[00:55:52] Speaker C: I think it's the, like, the cinematic approach to it, and then just how the evil. Like, both. Like the one with the Joker and the one with Bane. Like, I like the one with Bane when he was, like, in the tunnel, and he was like. I was.
I was like, just the. The writing.
[00:56:07] Speaker B: I grew up in the dark. Yeah.
[00:56:09] Speaker C: It kind of made you feel like.
[00:56:10] Speaker B: Yo, you know what?
[00:56:10] Speaker C: You have the right to go up. Like, in a sense, it.
[00:56:14] Speaker A: It invigorated you.
[00:56:15] Speaker C: Yeah.
[00:56:16] Speaker A: You have any other Mac that's not just comedy they're making as long as it has, like, things that have multiple emotions that are involved in it.
What was the other one you said you were about to say?
[00:56:26] Speaker B: So training Day or that was him. Yeah, Training Day for me. Or the Godfather.
[00:56:33] Speaker A: What about Training Day?
[00:56:34] Speaker B: So Training Day, I think it was just the. The dynamic between, you know, your. Your. Your someone trying to stay true to themselves, right? Like this was trying to turn this into something else that he really wasn't. And even though it would have been easier to do that, life would have been easier. This, like, nah, I'm not gonna do it. But. And then by being true to himself, niggas stayed alive, right, because he. Cause he helped out the. The. The. The cousin and shit. And if he didn't do that, he would have been fucked up like that. His head would have been in that bathroom.
[00:57:04] Speaker A: But it was a lot going on in that movie.
[00:57:06] Speaker B: I mean, a lot.
[00:57:07] Speaker A: Okay, well, let me. Cause I got a brand new favorite movie. Okay, what do you guys. If you go pay your money to sit down at the theater, let's say you go to the. The one with the recliner seat. So tickets are probably about 45, $50 for just a ticket. If you get popcorn, anything like that, it's gonna be another 15, 20, maybe $30. I think last week we spent 31 on top drinks and a pack of candy. So let's just say you spend a hundred dollars. What do you need that movie to do?
[00:57:34] Speaker C: Definitely want some action.
[00:57:35] Speaker A: Action.
[00:57:40] Speaker B: Emotion. Like I wanted to. Yeah, I want to have an emotional length of time.
[00:57:47] Speaker A: What does emotional attachment mean, though? What was. What would that mean to you?
[00:57:50] Speaker B: Like, I want to feel. I want to. I want to feel different than I did when I came in. At some point, whether it makes me mad, makes me sad, makes me something I don't want to just go through. I just don't want to watch it. I want to feel it. Like, I want it to change the way I feel.
[00:58:04] Speaker A: Okay, so my new favorite movie right here.
All the time everybody's like, yeah, man, I just want my life to be calm and. And quiet. No, we don't. There's never been a time you've sat down in front of a movie theater and like a movie screen.
[00:58:21] Speaker B: Like, is that the name of the movie?
[00:58:22] Speaker A: Hold on. I want this movie to be kind of slow and, you know, not threatening at all. And safe. I want this movie to be really safe. You've never said that, right? But then you come back and the greatest movie that's ever Been told, which is your life. You want that shit to be dull and quiet and safe and not. No, you don't. It's time to stop and reflect and look at the flowers because you're living in the greatest movie that's ever been written. Look at the crazy shit that's going on in our world right now and tell me it's not the best movie you've ever seen. If you are watching this on a screen, you're like, what the fuck?
[00:58:53] Speaker B: Yeah, it's funny you say that because.
[00:58:56] Speaker C: But you're not a character. But you are.
[00:58:58] Speaker A: You're the lead character.
[00:58:59] Speaker C: What I'm saying in a movie theater, you not a inflicted character. In your movie, in your real life, you are so.
[00:59:06] Speaker A: That's not what I'm asking you. Do you want to watch a boring movie?
[00:59:09] Speaker B: You know, it's funny that you say no, no, no.
[00:59:11] Speaker A: You wouldn't pay money for that.
[00:59:12] Speaker C: I wouldn't.
[00:59:13] Speaker A: You wouldn't pay money if at the end of every single time they, if nothing ever happens, you need some of the calamity.
[00:59:19] Speaker B: So, so I, I, this is the way I've, like, grew, growing up. I was always living like that, especially early on. And it's why even now I don't trip about what's going on in the world, right? Because I feel like whatever happens, I'm just gonna be here. I'm gonna just deal with it, right? Like, I'm gonna like, if it goes civil war, if it goes, whatever, whatever happens, I'm here for it, right? Like, I mean, like, it's, it's, I'm, it's almost exciting. Like you were saying, like, it, there is an excitement level to the change or the, the whatever now, sure, I don't want to become a slave again now, you know, I mean, but again, if that's what the attempted does, that's going to be a challenge, right? Like, again, I think we, we, we, we, we're. I think we're equipped a little bit different than we were when we were first brought over here.
[01:00:11] Speaker A: Imagine that battle, bro. Oh, that's what I' like, we are part of the greatest story ever told. And all we want to do is make it quieter and softer and duller and safer. And that's not really what we want. We're lying. And I think that's where our problem is right now. We're trying to figure out why we want to see the fucking train wreck, but we want to live something else that doesn't match. That doesn't match. And I think that I think more of us will be happier in our lives if we stop for a moment to recognize that we're actually witnessing the greatest movie ever. And we're a major character in this.
[01:00:46] Speaker B: And it's funny because I, I. So the other day I had an urge to do some wild and I was like, dude, you too old to be doing that. I was like, but you know how you, you know how to get away with it? Like, you could just, you know, park.
[01:01:02] Speaker A: Around the corner, knock, knock, knickknock or whatever.
[01:01:06] Speaker B: No, no, no, no.
Yeah, so, I mean, it was just, I mean, it wasn't nothing real serious. Just a little.
[01:01:13] Speaker A: What are we about?
[01:01:14] Speaker B: Just, just a little, just a little, like, you know, maybe, maybe vandalism, you know, I mean, what the. Yeah, you know, Are you gonna tell us or not? So there's this big ass billboard that's still up, that is the staged photograph of when Trump got shot. Right.
And where the ladies ducking down. And if you look at this, and I have to drive by this bitch to work every day, this went from.
[01:01:42] Speaker C: A Trump supporter to a full liberal.
[01:01:45] Speaker B: It's not, but see, again, it's not being about a liberal. So, I mean, he's an assassination denier. But, but, but if, but if you, if you see the.
So, so again, just because died doesn't mean that he didn't die. The, the, that was supposed to die didn't die.
So, so you could, I just don't.
[01:02:05] Speaker C: See that they could say, yo, don't shoot me, but shoot close to me with a real bullet. I don't.
[01:02:10] Speaker A: Bro, the fact that this is a conversation right now is exactly what I'm talking about. This is the greatest movie. Look how that is. We are sitting here arguing about whether or not our, our president really got shot or it was a staged attempt that can only happen in an exciting fucking movie.
[01:02:28] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:02:29] Speaker A: That is not a boring movie, bro.
[01:02:30] Speaker B: And my thing is, I don't understand how it's even an argument.
That's my, that's where I get off at. Like, I'm like, how do you guys, as intelligent as I feel like you both are, I just think. So how did you fall for that bullshit?
[01:02:46] Speaker C: I think the second one was fake. The one in his golf course, because it happened like two days after. I think that one was fake. But the first one, I think that kid really went up there, tried to kill Trump and he fucking missed.
I really think so.
[01:03:02] Speaker B: And you really think so? I watched the fucking video where they were getting him into the car. I'm Telling you, they don't even got suits on that fit these. Like, they couldn't outfit the. The. The quote unquote Secret Service with real Secret Service fucking suits. They're like, listen, bro, just put this on. Like, this is.
[01:03:19] Speaker C: You think they had K and G.
[01:03:21] Speaker B: Suits on these niggas?
These motherfuckers are not even fit. The chick is like, this doesn't fit me. They're like, we don't give a fuck. It'll work. Like, just, just go. Just go along, read the script and do what you're supposed to do. And the fact that again, I have to watch this billboard. Right. And. And I see her ducking down and the dude that's right next to him, he looked like he photo op and.
[01:03:44] Speaker A: Like, Jamie Mack, are you not recognizing that? You're proving me correct. This is a script.
[01:03:49] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:03:50] Speaker A: All this has been written.
[01:03:51] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:03:52] Speaker A: All these ideas are someone's idea of, or someone's dream of what a movie should be. And they're playing this out. Right. You're crisis actors. You're always talking about that.
[01:04:01] Speaker C: There are people who are.
[01:04:03] Speaker A: Who are implanted into. Into situations to make it look as though the world is ending.
[01:04:08] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:04:09] Speaker A: And they just travel, put them around the different. The different events. So what I'm saying is you're telling me that I'm on to something. This is the greatest movie we've ever seen.
[01:04:17] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:04:18] Speaker A: The scripts.
[01:04:18] Speaker B: Truman show. Like a motherfucker.
[01:04:20] Speaker A: Worse than the Truman Show.
[01:04:21] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:04:22] Speaker A: Because Truman was the only one who didn't know.
[01:04:25] Speaker B: Right. None of us know.
[01:04:27] Speaker A: That's right.
[01:04:27] Speaker B: Like, we, we all. But we talk that though. Right? Like, well, what you heard all the time. What if we're in a simulation?
[01:04:33] Speaker C: Yeah.
[01:04:33] Speaker A: I mean, we kind of. We kind of know. Yeah, I think we kind of know. And we have. We have an idea, but I don't think anybody can prove it.
[01:04:40] Speaker B: Right. And I think that's the part right like this that you would have to.
[01:04:43] Speaker C: Get out the simulation.
[01:04:44] Speaker A: So start enjoying a little bit more is really what I. I kind of wanted to go that direction. I don't think we got there because just.
[01:04:50] Speaker B: Just enjoy the movie you start.
[01:04:51] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:04:52] Speaker B: Just sit back and sometimes sit back.
[01:04:53] Speaker A: And just enjoy the. You ain't got to go out and do nothing crazy. Like I was thinking about doing something crazy. You don't have to. It's crazy happening everywhere.
[01:05:00] Speaker B: I guarantee that'll be a hell of a scene.
[01:05:02] Speaker A: If I pull up my Twitter right now, the first four things are probably ridiculous.
[01:05:07] Speaker B: Yeah. I just. I just wanted to paintball it. Or you know, some balloon paint, you know, some, some something just to. Because I. It's past 2024, right? And it's like fight, fight, fight. And again like I took drama in the seventh grade and I'm telling you, I was in plays and I seen better acting than that.
I'm just saying like that nothing about that seemed real to me. Nothing. The fight, fight, fight, fight, fight. The fucking, you know, I mean, again. And then if you. Again when they're putting them in the, the video of him getting in the car and, and everybody's just like ducking down and she's. None of these people are real. You could tell this ain't what they do for a living. Like I seen fucking. What was it? This movie with all the black or it was not black, but all the women trying to be action heroes. I think it's like 365 or 355 or some shit.
[01:06:05] Speaker C: I thought it's about to talk. Talk about the new oceans.
[01:06:09] Speaker B: No, no, no, no, no. This is action. When they're like, they're like badasses and none of them know how to play the part. And it's horrible because all these are non believable, right? They're not believable as a ass kicking ass. Like some women, you know, they can play the part. Like when I watch what the lioness, she makes me feel Zoe, like she's a, like she's can live that world, right? Like Colombiana, whatever, right? But when there's all of them, the redhead chick, the black girl, the Asian chick. They're all supposed to be these badass assassins doing bike scenes and shitty. All I can see is you on a motorcycle getting dragged by a truck.
[01:06:46] Speaker A: What does it got to do with Trump's fight, fight, fight.
[01:06:48] Speaker B: Because it's all like. It doesn't. It's not believable. It wasn't believable when I watched these in 365 or whatever, 355, whatever that action movie is. And it wasn't believable when I saw your ass get shot. You've been at parties.
[01:07:02] Speaker A: These are different things.
[01:07:03] Speaker B: No, listen, you're talking about somebody who's.
[01:07:06] Speaker A: Act, who's trying to look like something and somebody who just got shot.
[01:07:09] Speaker B: No, stop. You've been to parties and been shot up, right?
[01:07:12] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:07:13] Speaker B: Okay, who'd you. Who's just stood up and was like, no. And they didn't have secret service everybody.
[01:07:20] Speaker A: After the, the shot, everybody gets gone.
[01:07:23] Speaker B: Everybody's getting gone because they don't got.
[01:07:25] Speaker C: Secret service If I got sick.
[01:07:28] Speaker B: Look at. Shut up. He didn't have Secret Service.
[01:07:31] Speaker C: He had enough people that was going to try to protect them, man.
[01:07:35] Speaker B: If. If them.
[01:07:39] Speaker C: That was it.
[01:07:40] Speaker B: She was not supposed to be there.
[01:07:41] Speaker C: No, that was it.
[01:07:42] Speaker B: None of them were supposed to be there. Where was the r. Come on.
[01:07:44] Speaker C: No, no, that part. You're right. Because when they did the investigation, they did say that the Secret Service team that was there was not properly trained. They did say that. They did, but that doesn't mean it's fake.
[01:07:55] Speaker B: That is fake.
[01:07:56] Speaker C: If anything, that sounds like. Time out. Hold on, hold on. If anything, that sounds like they were purposely trying to kill him. So they put people that were not Secret service to protect him that day. He doesn't wake up and knows he's.
[01:08:08] Speaker B: Secret Service, my nigga. Or. Or what's more logical that when they looked at the fucking film tune is like, oh, my gosh, these fuckers are horrible. So what are we going to do? It's obvious that to everybody who can look at this, that these motherfuckers are not legit. Oh, those people weren't really trained properly. Of course not. Because that's the only thing that's going to explain how horribly they acted.
[01:08:32] Speaker A: Did y'all see in Serbia that their government used that infrasonic sound weapon on them or whatever?
[01:08:38] Speaker B: Read the whole, like, street.
[01:08:40] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:08:41] Speaker B: What was that? I mean, what does that happen?
[01:08:43] Speaker A: It's a wave. It's not. It's. But you can't hear it.
[01:08:46] Speaker B: All I know is it looked wild.
[01:08:48] Speaker A: I don't think you can hear it. I think that the. The noise you heard was the air displacement from the wave itself.
[01:08:54] Speaker C: But what happens to you when you.
[01:08:56] Speaker B: That. That pushed them? Huh?
[01:08:57] Speaker A: It's just. No, it's just. It's like. Have you ever been on a pistol when it fires.
[01:09:01] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:09:02] Speaker A: You know how it displaces the air and you can feel. Even if it's a couple of stalls over, you can feel the air come out of the room. Imagine that pointed at you and it's like times a thousand. And it's like that. It's like that. It's like the displacement of the air.
[01:09:14] Speaker B: You ever seen that video?
[01:09:16] Speaker C: Which one?
[01:09:16] Speaker B: What he's talking about in Serbia.
[01:09:18] Speaker C: I saw that when they were.
[01:09:19] Speaker A: It's like the. The street was full.
[01:09:21] Speaker C: Yeah. I didn't watch the full clip.
[01:09:23] Speaker A: And they just spread out because the. The sound or the.
[01:09:26] Speaker B: Like, you a. You a. I don't know.
[01:09:28] Speaker C: That's what they going to start doing with protesters.
[01:09:30] Speaker A: Well, I was telling Y'all, man, back in, In. In Iraq, they were doing that to the guys in the desert, and they were walking around surrendering because they were. They had been just getting that noise pipe. And that was sound waves. It was super high frequency sound waves. So human hearing is. Only goes up to 20,000 hertz, but if you pump 60,000 hertz, it's. Your ear still has to hear it. It's just. It's just you don't. You can't.
Your brain doesn't. I don't. I don't know the exact science. You're only able to hear that high in the spectrum, but the spectrum's still happening up there. And if you're over 124 decibels at any frequency, that's damaging, Right? And if I do 160 decibels at 60,000 hertz, you won't even know it's happening. Your ears will bleed and you won't even know why. You just feel like this headache and this pressure.
[01:10:18] Speaker B: Yeah. And I'm telling you, these experiments that they. How they figured this out.
[01:10:23] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:10:24] Speaker B: That go back to what. That goes back to who, right? Who was doing these experiments and trying to, you know, figure out.
Figure out the limits in. In. In in of people's. Of humanity. Right? Like what people could withstand and couldn't withstand. And who do you think? I mean, I. I know the popular person. Like, I know. I know the popular nation that was for all of that.
[01:10:47] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:10:48] Speaker B: And then a lot of them came over here.
[01:10:49] Speaker A: Yeah.
[01:10:50] Speaker C: Argentina. Don't forget Argentina.
[01:10:52] Speaker B: Yeah, but. But Argentina. Is Argentina doing all of this?
[01:10:55] Speaker A: I don't. I find it fishy that that's the first group of people that ever tried. I don't. I believe.
[01:11:00] Speaker B: No, I think all of this was trial and error, right. I think that. I think they just took it to another level. Like it.
[01:11:06] Speaker A: We don't know the stuff that China. Matter of fact, Japan was worse than China.
[01:11:09] Speaker B: Oh, yeah.
[01:11:10] Speaker A: We don't know the Japan did.
[01:11:11] Speaker C: I think. I think they're the ones that publish their.
[01:11:14] Speaker B: They're fighting, right? They're like, look, we're willing to just figure it. We just. We're gonna tell you. Like, we need to know.
[01:11:19] Speaker A: You. You gotta die.
[01:11:20] Speaker B: Come on. Okay.
[01:11:21] Speaker A: You're like, okay.
[01:11:22] Speaker C: But I think everybody.
[01:11:23] Speaker B: But before you do, we're gonna see how hot you can stand it before you do die, right? Like what?
[01:11:29] Speaker A: Well, I mean, just imagine if the ones that we hear about here, like the Tuskegee Experiment, right. For instance, those are the ones we hear about, right? You don't hear about the other ones.
[01:11:37] Speaker B: That's true.
[01:11:38] Speaker A: So that's true.
[01:11:39] Speaker B: So they, yeah, they were probably doing.
[01:11:40] Speaker A: I was in the military. I know, I know. During that anthrax time, they gave us something crazy. I know. Because home. I was up. I didn't know what it was.
[01:11:48] Speaker B: Yeah.
[01:11:48] Speaker A: And it, I, I, it just cured itself. So I don't know if it's going to come back at some point, but they did every test, Every single test there was. They ran it. And I was just sick. I, I couldn't eat. I couldn't keep any food down. I was just sick.
[01:12:01] Speaker B: And there's, I mean, and you had no choice. I mean, of course that's where the experiments. Because again, you would think they would.
[01:12:07] Speaker C: Not want to experiment on their soldiers, though. Why they need the bodies.
[01:12:10] Speaker B: Oh, my gosh.
[01:12:12] Speaker A: You don't got to be a good body French.
[01:12:14] Speaker B: Do you not understand about the sacrifice? Like, do you not. Do you know you're still gonna get sacrificed? When's the last time you made breakfast?
[01:12:23] Speaker C: My girl makes it.
[01:12:24] Speaker B: Okay, here we go. Gender roles, huh? So you don't make breakfast. So again, when's the last time you made breakfast? Let me just ask you.
[01:12:33] Speaker C: Oh, yesterday, Sometime last week.
[01:12:36] Speaker B: Okay. Did it involve eggs?
[01:12:38] Speaker C: Yes.
[01:12:39] Speaker B: Okay, so how many eggs did you destroy to eat? Eat?
Did you give a about those eggs when you was cracking them shells? No, you don't. It's just part of the process, right? Yeah. Is it? So you gonna be destroying some, you're gonna crack some. And it's just the way it is. These to get to their, to get to your omelet or whatever, you had your eggs. You have to do this. You had to destroy that shell. And they don't give a about the 3,000 in a couple buildings or 50,000 overseas. In a war, like, people gonna die. But as long as we get what the we want, does it really matter? I mean, shit, we got too many people. They believe there's too many of us anyway. You talk about listeners.
[01:13:22] Speaker A: We appreciate you guys. Once again, tonight we're gonna stop this one for J. Max. Blood pressure goes. Goes up too much higher. I didn't mean to start that about the movie thing. Sorry, man. Do not look at this as a movie. This shit sucks. Go to the movie theater. But listeners keep supporting us, keep interacting with us, and we'll keep bringing the nonsense because we realize lies and sometimes people just need to laugh. Till next time.
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